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The Story Tellers.....
We are the chosen.
My feelings are, that in each family there is one who
seems called to find the ancestors. To put flesh on their bones
and make them live again,
to tell the family story and to feel that somehow they
know and approve. To me, doing
genealogy is not a cold gathering of facts but, instead, breathing
life into all who have gone before.
We are the story tellers of the tribe. All tribes have one.
We have been called, as it were, by our genes.
Those who have gone before cry out to us:
Tell our story. So, we do.
In finding them, we somehow find ourselves. How many
graves have I stood before now and cried? I have lost count.
How many times have I told the ancestors you have a
wonderful family you would be proud of us?
How many times have I walked up to a grave and felt
somehow there was love there for me? I cannot say.
It goes beyond just documenting facts. It goes to who am
I and why do I do the things I do? It goes to seeing a
cemetery about to be lost forever to weeds and indifference
and saying I can't let this happen.
The bones here are bones of my bone and flesh of my flesh.
It goes to doing something about it. It goes to pride in what
our ancestors were able to accomplish.
How they contributed to what we are today. It goes
to respecting their hardships and losses, their never giving
in or giving up, their resoluteness to go on and
build a life for their family.
It goes to deep pride that they fought to make
and keep us a Nation.
It goes to a deep and immense understanding that they
were doing it for us.
That we might be born who we are.
That we might remember them. So we do.
With love and caring and scribing each fact of their
existence, because we are them and they are us.
So, as a scribe called, I tell the story of my family.
It is up to that one called in the next generation to answer
the call and take their place in the long line of family storytellers.
That, is why I do my family genealogy, and that
is what calls those young and old to step up
and put flesh on the bones.
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